meet my wife.

hello brides,

i am mister small and i am not a wedding coordinator. but my wife is. and quite a very detailed one at that. now of course, this may seem biased knowing full well that the outcome of what i write here determines whether i'll be sleeping on the bed or on the floor.

regardless of that, the task of writing this introduction falls upon me because my wife could not find the words to properly describe herself. so i am doing it for her.

she is missus biG, but i call her polly. if you already know her, you’ll immediately agree that she is one of the most obsessive compulsive people you’ll ever come across. when she planned every minute detail of our own wedding, i was given a gazillion options for the tiniest of things, including the way the table napkins were to be folded and what the waiters would be wearing.

but despite being a stickler for order and procedure, our wedding was anything but calculated. it was personal. we did everything differently, from our choice of wedding readings to an unconventional first dance. as she has told me many times in the past, our wedding was an incredibly personal journey. it should be one for you too.

if you do decide to get her as your wedding coordinator, know that she is more than just someone who will make you choose color schemes or choir music. she is more than someone who will email you all sorts of unusual wedding readings. she is more than just someone who will fix your wedding dress right before they open the church doors and your groom sees you for the first time.

she is missus biG, the person who will stand by you in your last few moments as a single girl. i married her because i knew, i wouldn’t want anyone else there for me in the end.


Tuesday, July 14, 2009

all the pretty things



i never really thought of myself as a creative person.

i grew up with two extremely musically-inclined brothers, a very fashionable and artistic younger sister, and an older sister who plays the piano (and also happens to be a medical genius). i can't do even half the things they can, so now you understand where my deeply-ingrained poor sense of self come from, haha.

one day, i became best friends with a really awesome writer. a few years later, on his birthday, he sat me down and read a letter he had composed. he ended the letter by asking me to marry him. i said yes in a heartbeat (what kind of girl says no on his birthday?). in that one YES!, i fortuitously opened the floodgates of creativity. only then did i really come to understand the term 'creative juices'. they were gushing out of me so unstoppably that i had no choice -- i had to pour them all into planning our wedding.

i really enjoyed every single bit of it. of course i wasn't thrilled about the number-crunching, but just being around so many beautiful things made me not mind it so much. my creativity (or lack of it as i was growing up) may not have always been concrete, but i now recognize that i do have a knack for envisioning, for knowing what's beautiful or classy, even in its simplicity.

suddenly, my love for all things vintage or romantic or modern or quirky had a place in my life. the time and money i spent collecting special papers, journals, font styles and interior design books were not for nothing after all. what was once just a simple admiration for beautiful prints and design was about to play an important role in my life.

so i planned our wedding, and it was wonderful. and personal. and a helluva' lot of fun. most of all, it was mine. something I had created. something i could put my name on and be proud of.

now, almost a year after our wedding, i've decided to make this my life and my work. simply, i want to be constantly surrounded by pretty little things that make me happy. what better way to do that than to help with others' weddings? hopefully, i can help with yours.

so, by all means, check out all the links of inspiration sites and blogs i've posted here -- they will overwhelm you and blow your mind in the best way possible. they will open up one new idea after another and just drive you blissfully crazy with excitement over your upcoming wedding. may this process unleash all the creativity you have within you. that is my hope. cheers!

polly fong

No comments: