meet my wife.

hello brides,

i am mister small and i am not a wedding coordinator. but my wife is. and quite a very detailed one at that. now of course, this may seem biased knowing full well that the outcome of what i write here determines whether i'll be sleeping on the bed or on the floor.

regardless of that, the task of writing this introduction falls upon me because my wife could not find the words to properly describe herself. so i am doing it for her.

she is missus biG, but i call her polly. if you already know her, you’ll immediately agree that she is one of the most obsessive compulsive people you’ll ever come across. when she planned every minute detail of our own wedding, i was given a gazillion options for the tiniest of things, including the way the table napkins were to be folded and what the waiters would be wearing.

but despite being a stickler for order and procedure, our wedding was anything but calculated. it was personal. we did everything differently, from our choice of wedding readings to an unconventional first dance. as she has told me many times in the past, our wedding was an incredibly personal journey. it should be one for you too.

if you do decide to get her as your wedding coordinator, know that she is more than just someone who will make you choose color schemes or choir music. she is more than someone who will email you all sorts of unusual wedding readings. she is more than just someone who will fix your wedding dress right before they open the church doors and your groom sees you for the first time.

she is missus biG, the person who will stand by you in your last few moments as a single girl. i married her because i knew, i wouldn’t want anyone else there for me in the end.


Friday, September 11, 2009

button ears

i can't remember where i saw this image, but i just found it in my archives. it's one of my favorites, and i'm only sorry that i won't be able to acknowledge the source. :(

usually, a groom's boutonniere matches a bride's bouquet -- and why not, that makes complete sense after all. but i love these ideas because they show that boutonnieres can be different and more interesting, even in subtle ways. AND they don't always have to be flowers! (i'm obviously more drawn to those of a botanical persuasion.)

the boutonnieres here are created from a mix of plants (that autumn leaf is cute), twigs, barley, what looks to me like a tiny cactus, and yes, even a piece of coral (if that doesn't spell beach wedding to you, then i don't know what does).

is it becoming more and more obvious that i'm not too crazy about flowers in general -- whether they be as boutonnieres or centerpieces (see previous blog)? aside from being typical, they're costly! and if they're not costly, well, they look like they're going to die...soon. so YES, here's to alternative boutonnieres, centerpieces, bouquets, what have you. i'm all for the use of paper, luminaries, wood, fruits and vegetation (yes, i said vegetation) -- there is no end to what you can use. and speaking of vegetation, here's one flower that i actually like -- the cabbage rose. it looks more like a cabbage to me than anything else. i used these at my own wedding. looking back, it might have been nice to use real cabbage too!

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